Hi Fred, I absolutely love your post. I’ve been thinking about this lately. Especially the fear part. But I’m thinking what fear is the real fear instead of things making up in my mind. Like at what point you can say ok I need to avoid confronting the thing I fear because the fear is for real and at what point I need to do the hard work and overcome the fear
Hi Jianghong, thank you for the kind words and for sharing. The fear is always 'real'. But the consequences differ greatly. Consider the risks/downside and whether they're reversible. Does your fear/imagination match reality or are you simply avoiding discomfort/change/risk of embarrassment etc.?
Hi Fred, I absolutely love your post. I’ve been thinking about this lately. Especially the fear part. But I’m thinking what fear is the real fear instead of things making up in my mind. Like at what point you can say ok I need to avoid confronting the thing I fear because the fear is for real and at what point I need to do the hard work and overcome the fear
Hi Jianghong, thank you for the kind words and for sharing. The fear is always 'real'. But the consequences differ greatly. Consider the risks/downside and whether they're reversible. Does your fear/imagination match reality or are you simply avoiding discomfort/change/risk of embarrassment etc.?
Really wonderful post, Frederik.
Thank you, Vickram!