🎙Podcast: Nervous System Mastery with Jonny Miller
"We have what I think of as this Cartesian hangover, almost going back to Descartes, of this mind-body dualism."
Hello everyone,
I recently had the pleasure of speaking with Jonny Miller, writer, podcaster, and breathwork facilitator. Jonny wrote some of my favorite recent pieces, including the amazing operating manual for the nervous system and How to Pay Off Your Emotional Debt. Jonny also puts together terrific small wikis like this one on emotional resilience, the ‘spiritual MBA’ and Somalist (‘a global directory of somatic practitioners + trauma-aware bodyworkers’).
We talked about breathwork and its benefits and risks (including Wim Hof), ‘state over story’ and the ability to change the state of your own nervous system, Jonny’s own journey, the $55,000 he spent exploring various modalities and experiences to find the most impactful ideas (including super interesting stuff like darkness meditation), emotional debt, repressed anger, and men’s work.
In the context of a breathwork journey, incomplete reflexes will rise to the surface and they will be felt. The body will move in a certain way, and then there'll be relaxation. It's almost like layers of an onion that keep on unpeeling. The more we become comfortable with feeling the full spectrum of emotions, the more that these deeper pieces start to arise.
We tend to focus on the outer journey, the how of success. How to spot opportunities, how to invest, how to build a business. Mastering the inner journey is equally important: both understanding your why and having the tools and practices to master the stress and setbacks along the way. That’s one of the lessons of the maze. Remember: great investors are survivors and experts at cultivating resilience.
We have what I think of as this Cartesian hangover, almost going back to Descartes, of this mind-body dualism. I think the rational brain, the intellect, the kind of left-hemispheric way of perceiving the world has been very prioritized and almost worshiped in our culture.
Controlling your mind, mastering your mind, mindfulness, all of these things have been really, really emphasized. I think what is starting to happen is the pendulum swinging back to, ‘oh no, there is no actual distinction between the brain and the nervous system.’
For this reason I recommend checking out Jonny’s work (among many other practitioners). If you’re interested in learning more about him, Jonny teaches an upcoming online course on nervous system mastery. He will also host a men’s retreat in Colorado in September 2023 (Deep Reset Retreat).
For those interested in exploring Breathwork further, Jonny recommended the app Othership (this is his link with an offer code with 3 months free). I will also soon be sharing some of my own experience on this topic.
Unfortunately, I ran into audio issues on my end during the recording (thank you, Zoom😢) and had to heavily edit my questions. There are still a few minor audio glitches, I hope it doesn’t affect the experience too much.